Divorce is often seen as an ending, but what if it could be the beginning of something extraordinary?
After years of personal experience, heartbreak, and deep transformation, I created The QC Method™, a proven, step-by-step framework designed to help women regain their confidence, trust themselves again, and step into a future they truly desire after divorce.
I know this journey intimately because I have lived it.
After experiencing the pain of multiple divorces and eventually losing my third husband to cancer, I found myself stuck in survival mode, making the same mistakes, repeating patterns, and questioning my worth.
I was looking for answers, waiting for time to heal me, but what I truly needed was a structured, intentional way to rebuild my life.
That is why I developed The QC Method™.
It is the framework I wish I had after my first divorce. It would have changed the way I saw myself, the decisions I made, and the life I created moving forward.
Now, it is the foundation of my work, guiding women through a process of transformation that allows them to truly heal, reclaim their power, and step boldly into their next chapter.
The 4 Pillars of
The QC Method™
The Foundation for Change
When you don’t know who you are or where you’re going, moving forward feels impossible.
That’s why the first step in the QC Method™ is gaining clarity about yourself, your beliefs, and what you truly want from life after divorce.
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Self-Discovery: Who are you beyond the roles you have played?
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Identifying Limiting Beliefs: What stories have you been telling yourself that no longer serve you?
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Raising Your Vibration: How can you shift into a higher version of yourself?
Without clarity, you stay stuck in the past. But when you understand where you are and where you want to be, you unlock the power to move forward.
Taking Back Your Power
Divorce can leave you feeling powerless, but here is the truth: You always have a choice.
In this phase, we focus on shifting your mindset, making empowered decisions, and learning to trust yourself again.
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Reframing Your Perception: Seeing opportunities instead of obstacles
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Forgiveness: Letting go of resentment and freeing yourself from the past
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Elevating Confidence: Learning how to trust yourself again
You are not defined by what happened to you. You are defined by the choices you make moving forward.
Stepping Through Fear
Even when we know what we want, fear holds us back. This phase is about learning to act despite fear and using courage to propel yourself forward.
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Befriending Fear: Understanding that fear is not a stop sign—it’s a signal for growth
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Using Failure as Stepping Stones: Every setback is a lesson
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Silencing the Inner Critic: Recognizing that you are worthy of the life you desire
Confidence isn’t built by waiting. It is built by taking action before you feel ready.
Aligning With Your Future
The final step is about connecting the dots—with yourself, with your dreams, and with the life you want to create.
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Developing Intuition: Trusting yourself again
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Creating a Life Plan: Mapping out your future with intention
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Calibrating Your Energy: Taking aligned action toward your dreams
This is where everything comes together—where you finally step into the next chapter of your life with confidence, trust, and purpose.
Why The QC Method™ Works
This method isn’t just theory. It is the process I used to rebuild my own life.
It has been shaped by real experiences, real struggles, and real breakthroughs. It works because:
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It provides a structured, step-by-step approach to healing and growth.
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It helps you move beyond survival mode and into a life filled with purpose.
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It is designed for women who are ready to stop doubting themselves and start creating a future they love.
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It transforms self-doubt into self-trust, helping you take aligned action toward what you truly want.
This is for women who:
✔ Feel stuck, lost, or unsure of who they are after divorce.
✔ Struggle with self-doubt, second-guessing, or seeking approval from others.
✔ Want to finally break free from old patterns and create a life they love.
✔ Are ready to take action and reclaim their confidence, trust, and purpose.
If this resonates with you, you are in the right place.
How You Can Work With Me
Ready to experience The QC Method™ for yourself?
Here are ways we can work together:
Group Coaching – Be part of a supportive community and go through the method with like-minded women.
Private 1:1 Mentoring/Coaching – Get personalised guidance and deep transformation through private coaching with me.
Your next chapter is waiting. Are you ready to step into it?
Click below to explore your options and start your journey today.
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