Confidence, Self-Trust & A Future You Choose
Personalised mentoring to help you rebuild confidence, trust yourself again, and design a life with purpose after divorce.
A Journey That’s All About YOU
You’ve done the reading. You’ve listened to the podcasts. You may even have joined group programmes where you felt supported and inspired.
But deep down, you know what you need most right now is space to focus entirely on you.
Private Mentoring with me is a 3-month, 1:1 journey designed to help you stop second-guessing yourself, silence the inner critic, and finally create a future that feels true to who you are.
✨ 12 Transformational 1:1 Sessions | Bespoke Guidance | Intimate Online Support
💫 Starts as soon as you’re ready
This is private online mentoring — a form of life after divorce coaching designed especially for women in the UK and beyond who want to rebuild with clarity and confidence.
Do You Recognise Yourself Here?
Maybe you’ve rebuilt parts of your life — the job, the routine, the social life.
On the outside, you look like you’re coping.
But on the inside?
You’re still carrying doubts, loneliness, and a quiet ache that whispers, “Is this really it now?”
You crave clarity. You want to rebuild confidence after divorce. You want to trust yourself again. And you’re tired of carrying the weight of other people’s expectations while shrinking your own dreams.
This is where private mentoring becomes the bridge — the moment you stop surviving and start becoming.
Why Now Is the Time
You could wait another year. You could keep promising yourself you’ll figure out how to rebuild your life after divorce on your own.
But you know where that leads — more self-help books gathering dust, more cycles of doubt, and more mornings where you wake up feeling like you’ve let yourself down again.
The truth?
Healing doesn’t happen when you put yourself at the bottom of the list. It happens when you decide you’re worth prioritising — and you’re ready to go all in on you.
“Confidence after divorce isn’t about becoming someone new.
It’s about remembering who you’ve always been.”
Is This For You?
This is for you if…
✓ You’ve done the “trying to be fine” act, but you know you’re not truly free inside.
✓ You thrive with personal attention and want someone to walk this path solely with you.
✓ You’re ready to stop second-guessing and start trusting yourself again.
✓ You want to heal, grow, and move forward without having to explain yourself over and over.
It’s not the right time if…
✗ You’re hoping for a quick fix without showing up for yourself.
✗ You’re not ready to carve out time and space to focus on your own growth.
“You don’t need to start over — you need to start true. Everything you’re searching for is already within you.”
How It Works
When you join private mentoring, you’ll also receive full access to the Regain Your Life After Divorce Programme and training portal.
This is not optional — it’s the foundation of your journey.
The modules open up in sequence, one after another, because they mirror the exact steps I took through my own healing after divorce.
Each week, you’ll move through a module that includes a teaching video, workbook, and practices — giving you structure, guidance, and direction.
The programme follows my signature QC Method™:
Clarity – untangle the confusion and get honest about what you really want.
Choice – release the “shoulds” and begin trusting your own decisions.
Courage – set boundaries, speak your truth, and step into confidence.
Connection – rebuild your relationship with yourself and others from a place of strength.
After completing each module, we meet for your private mentoring session.
That’s where we take it further, working through the emotions that surface, holding you accountable to follow through, and supporting you as you apply these changes in your real life. The programme gives you the roadmap.
Private mentoring ensures you don’t just understand it, but you live it — with me beside you every step of the way.
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Your Questions, Answered
Isn’t the group programme enough?
The Regain Your Life after Divorce programme is life-changing for so many women — and it may be for you too. Private mentoring is for the woman who knows she thrives best with 1:1 attention and is ready for an intensely personal journey.
“What if I’m not ready?”
You don’t have to feel ready. You just need to feel willing. And that willingness is enough to begin.
“What if it doesn’t work for me?”
This isn’t about me giving you answers. It’s about me guiding you to find your own. Transformation comes when you decide to show up for yourself — and I’ll be right there beside you.
What You’ll Receive
When you choose private mentoring, you receive everything inside the Regain Your Life After Divorce programme and training portal — the 12 transformational modules, workbooks, meditations, journaling prompts, Quiet Mirror Moments™, and more.
And then we take it deeper, with the high-touch support that’s only available to private clients:
✔ 12 x 1:1 Private Mentoring Sessions with me (online, via Zoom weekly).
✔ WhatsApp and email support throughout the programme — so you’re never left on your own between sessions.
✔ Bespoke action steps + journaling prompts after each session — tailored personally for you.
✔ My full presence, accountability, and guidance — every step of the way.
✨ Your Investment
Pay in full: £3,497
Payment plan: 3 × £1,250 (£3,750 total)
I’m Deborah, and I’ve walked this path myself.
Divorced in my 20s and 30s, and later widowed after losing my husband to cancer, I know what it means to rebuild from heartbreak, loss, and the feeling that life will never look the same again.
At 47, in the quiet of grief and isolation, I finally discovered that the journey back to myself was the most important work I’d ever do.
I created the QC Method™ from that lived experience, blending 25+ years in the hair & beauty industry and my training as a double-certified Mindset and Confidence Coach.
Today, I help women 45+ after divorce regain their lives with clarity, confidence, and purpose — so they can trust themselves again, let go of self-doubt, and begin creating a future that feels true.
Imagine the Woman You’ll Become
Imagine this: three months from now, you’re no longer overthinking every decision.
You look in the mirror and see a woman you actually trust. You’ve stopped shrinking yourself for others and started stepping into the life you know is waiting for you.
That’s the power of saying yes to yourself.
If you’re ready to stop circling the same doubts and start creating a future that feels true — this is your invitation.
This is your time to rebuild your life after divorce with confidence — through private mentoring that’s focused entirely on you.
This Is What’s Possible For You, Too
These stories are not just reflections — they are reminders. Of what becomes possible when you give yourself the space to heal, grow, and come home to who you truly are.
Renay Burke
Thank you so much, Deborah. You never judged me — you just saw me, and helped me see myself clearly again.
That time in my life was one of the darkest I’ve ever known, but through our private coaching sessions, I began to rediscover who I really was.
You helped me embrace my mistakes, stop judging myself so harshly, and step into a new kind of strength I didn’t know I had.
I’ll always carry what I’ve learned from you — and you’ll always be my mentor.
Alison Hunt
Deborah has been absolutely amazing.
If I’m honest, at the start of the programme, I didn’t really believe it would work for me. I’d lost so much faith in myself.
But I couldn’t have been more wrong.
Deborah helped me believe in myself again and gave me the confidence I needed to move forward with my life.
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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Q: What is the duration of the mentoring programme?
Private mentoring is a 3-month journey. During this time, you’ll complete the 12 modules of the Regain Your Life™ After Divorce Programme and meet with me for 12 private 1:1 mentoring sessions (online, via Zoom weekly). You’ll also have ongoing WhatsApp and email support throughout.
Q: How is the programme structured?
The programme follows my signature QC Method™ — Clarity, Choice, Courage, and Connection.
Each module opens in sequence, because the steps build on one another just as they did in my own healing journey. You’ll complete the module content (video, workbook, practices) first, and then we meet 1:1 to take it deeper, apply it to your life, and work through anything that arises for you.
Q: Can I join the programme at any time?
Yes. Private mentoring is available on a rolling basis, which means you can begin whenever you’re ready to commit. Spaces are limited as I only take on a small number of private clients at a time, so I can give you my full presence and support.
Q: What if I have never done anything like this before?
That’s completely okay. Many of the women I work with are new to coaching. You don’t need to know how to “do it right” — you just need to show up with a willingness to be honest with yourself. I’ll guide you step by step, and together we’ll create a safe space for your healing and growth.
Q: Is this programme only for recently divorced women?
No. Whether your divorce was months ago or years ago, if you’re still carrying self-doubt, loss of confidence, or a sense that you’ve lost yourself along the way, this programme is for you. Private mentoring meets you where you are now — and helps you rebuild from here.
Q: Is there a refund policy?
Because you gain immediate access to all programme materials inside the Regain Your Life After Divorce portal, and because private mentoring is a high-touch service with live sessions, refunds are not available.
This programme is designed for women who are truly ready to commit to their growth and transformation. If you dedicate at least 1–2 hours a week to engaging with the content and applying the tools, I am confident it will create a profound change in your life.
When you show up for yourself and do the work, the results will follow — because the process works when you work it.
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